A practical guide to Tantra - by Swami Prem Paras

When the outer woman dissappears while love-making then you will reach the inner woman. And when the outer man disappears while love-making you can reach the inner man. Once the inner woman is satisfied automatically the outer woman is satisfied.

The path to ecstacy

- Drop the Ego - Attain Samadhi - Flow like a river - Be full of Gratitude No need to follow any postures, or any used techniques . Just flow like the Ganges from Gangotri to the ocean. Go with fearless, egoless. Involve all five elements and expand your awareness into this infinite Universe. The door to Bliss gets closed with society's condemnation and conditioning. Your TRUE source is LOVE , Find your source and the way you have come into existence. If you want to understand love , you have to understand how you came into this world.

Importance of Samadhi

If you have not attained to Samadhi you might miss some valuable experiences in Tantra. Tantra without Samadhi is just Lust. In the name of Tantra many people are taking advantage and indulging in lustful practices. One who in the name of Tantra practices lustful Sex is a real Sinner and there are very few beings who understand the difference between Lust and Love. If you scan yourself and find lots of unfulfilled desires, anger, ego and jealousy immediately sit in a silent place with your eyes closed and try to locate the source of these energies. In the course of time the existence will give wisdom to transform these into pure bliss. In this eternal journey every creature is searching for the source . If you are a little aware , you will recognize the moment when your parents made love you came into this existence. Each and every cell born in this universe is coming out of Love-making. The Stars , the Sun, the Moon and the whole of the universe has come through Love.

Love making should happen from heart. When the mind is there, it will not allow you to go deeper. To shift your consciousness from the mind to the heart Samadhi is the true path. You have infinite power in your source and your body is like a beautiful chandelier. What is the use of having a great power source and lighting up your beautiful chandelier for only a few minutes?? The more you light up yourself the more darkness will be transformed. Understanding and experiencing deep Love is everyone's birthright!!  In ancient times people lived upto 150 years and gave birth to about 10 children because they had a great appetite and a great love life. The quality of love-making can influence the quality of life to a great extent.