When the outer woman dissappears while love-making then you will reach the inner woman. And when the outer man disappears while love-making you can reach the inner man. Once the inner woman is satisfied automatically the outer woman is satisfied. The path to ecstacy- Drop the Ego - Attain Samadhi - Flow like a river - Be full of Gratitude No need to follow any postures, or any used techniques . Just flow like the Ganges from Gangotri to the ocean. Go with fearless, egoless.